Just a short thought

February 21 2024

Last Wednesday, I photographed straight up at the ceiling in the waiting area before the train arrived. Even though I’ve already photographed this type of motif (and even from this waiting area) before, I never tire of it.

I started thinking a bit about the idea of choosing sides. Everyone always has to choose; black or white, high or low, inward or outward. We make choices, often unintentionally. It’s human nature for people to pick sides, for better or for worse.

I read a short text on google that says a lot:

As a mediator it is imperative that, throughout, I remain neutral. In fact, beyond passively NOT taking sides, I am actually proactively on BOTH sides, aiming for a win-win situation. Feelings are respected and valued but the focus is on finding ways forward that work for both parties, not on placing blame. There is a difference between standing up for what you believe is right and taking sides against another.

February 24 2024

February 24 2024 – Self portrait

The feelings that hurt most, the emotions that sting most, are those that are absurd – The longing for impossible things, precisely because they are impossible; nostalgia for what never was; the desire for what could have been; regret over not being someone else; dissatisfaction with the world’s existence. All these half-tones of the soul’s consciousness create in us a painful landscape, an eternal sunset of what we are(Fernando Pessoa)